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Amber, I've never done this before! how do I know you're real?

Did you know that the ad you probably found me though required a state ID and my own personally identifying information to get an account? Well, it did!
Yes, there is a rise of AI and stolen identity profiles, which makes things tricky! But this is why you're being smart and doing your research. Well, my good man, I have multiple social media accounts (3, actually!) which go back years! And my photos are consistent! You generally want your date to have some kind of social media presence. Feel free to check mine out.

Instagram // Bluesky // X/Twitter


I've gotten scammed before / I don't want to send a deposit / You must be a scammer since you're asking for money!

Unless you are finding me off a review board and have robust credibility, I require a deposit. Why? It respects both of our time. You are putting forth money as an act of good will that you will show up to honor the plans we made, and I will as well. I also need to ensure that you're not a minor, cop, or wanted person.

I'm sorry to hear you got scammed. However, there are ways to prevent that.
Part of not getting scammed is doing your research beforehand, instead of sending money willy-nilly to the first hottie that catches your attention and demands your to send over cashapp (although, if that's hot to you, don't met me yuck your yum!).
Does she have social media?
Website? Reviews?
Do her photos look consistent across all of her advertising platforms?
Does she look like a real person vs a too-good-to-be-true ai generated images?
You can also inquire via email rather than text messages. You can cross check her ads, socials, and website to see that the info matches (Phone numbers are subject to change more often, as sometimes purveyors of intimacy get their account suspended unfortunately. Rude!)
If the answer is yes, you're probably dealing with a real person. If not, you may want to be more careful. Maybe consider book a PAID phone call or video call first which is a lesser monetary commitment, before booking a full session!

Lastly, I cannot pay my rent and life expenses on measly deposits alone. I would much rather have a date with you than spend all that time trying to steal $100. It would also wreck my reputation. Words gets around. Social media accounts get shut down by angry fellows who got their money taken. You don't have to be one of them. And once you meet me, you'll understand what a gem I am. Business first, then pleasure. I believe in you.

...but my wife/girlfriend/boyfriend/great aunt/accountant keeps tabs on my spending and a CashApp transaction is suspicious!

No problem, I take Bitcoin! If you don't use that, you can also send me an Amazon gift card! I hate using Amazon and usually don't need to buy anything there, but I have plenty of friends in need that I can shop and make someone's life a bit easier. It doesn't benefit me and I can't pay my rent that way-- I don't prefer this way of receiving deposit, but it is a last resort and acceptable enough as a work-around.

But I have a family / an important job. I can't send you my ID or LinkedIn or social media... I want to be anonymous.

WOW! I also have a family. I need to stay healthy and safe for them. That requires knowing exactly who I will be spending time with, behind closed doors. I have no interest in getting you fired, telling your boss, fucking up your marriage, breaking you up from your partner, or outing you online. The thought of that is horrifying, actually. It makes me suspicious that you don't have my best interest at heart when you insist on being anonymous. It makes me suspicious that you are just trying to book as a fantasy and don't plan to show up. Not a great vibe, dude!
I can assure you that hiring someone like myself is actually extremely normal, common, and nothing to be ashamed about. I have seen men and even a few women of all walks of life. All races, body sizes, and you know... other sizes haha. I know you are anxious about one night of fun ruining your life, but that simply will not happen with me, unless you bungle something on your end.

The cool thing about hiring a professional is that we can enjoy our time together, and then I disappear until you want to see me again. I expect to be left to exist in peace, as well. I didn't build my business by kissing and telling.

If you would like to be put more at ease, you can opt to arrange an in-person screening date coffee/beer/snack date which is $150 up-front for a half hour, and the cost of whatever I order at the place that you invite me to.

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